Why Are Men Disappearing After The Third Date?

You're dating and you feel like things are going really well, so why are men ghosting dates after date number 3? Here are 3 logical scenarios because Queen, finding a good man is really hard and I just want us all to have a person.    Reason number 1: He's moved on with someone else.  When you're only 3 dates deep its not uncommon for people to be dating multiple people and by your 3rd date he's probably decided if you really likes you enough to keep the work and rotation up or if he's ready to move on to someone he has a stronger connection with.  Reason number 2: You weren't interesting or exciting enough.  If he's dating you as a distraction from his normal life, he's looking for fun and maybe spontaneous, and maybe you're set in your routing and very predictable.  That's either a very attractive trait or a very unattractive trait for me.  There really is no black and white there.  And reason number 3 is : He's just not that into you.  It's the harshest because it is literally them not liking you. There was a whole 'Sex And The City' episode dedicated to the He's Just Not That Into You practice and then a best selling book came shortly after.  That book was a life changer for me and if you've never read it, I suggest you do it. And that is that, He is just not that into you and by the third date, he knows.  The Third Date rule isn't something new, its akin to the 'don't call the next day' rule. There are so many rules to dating and mating its tough to keep up <3